Stealth Fighter Bug. Huge -- 25 mm long, not counting legs or antennae. Quite alien looking! On Bush Honeysuckle.
I think that this guy may have a parasitic mite -- the little red oval in its "armpit."
Also NJ Oct shot for BugGuide from 10/25/09.
Not sure why its wings were somewhat spread like this. It appeared to be alive but I didn't check.